ASCENSION LUTHERAN CHURCH
Columbia, South Carolina
Memoirs of Miriam Greever Cooper
(76 years of age)
October 18, 1981
70th ANNIVERSARY
What a pleasure is was months ago to receive the announcement of your long-range plans for this year. I appreciated, also, the invitation to be present to represent the Greever family in October; but, I confess I was truly shocked to be asked to speak. Public speaking was never a strong point in my career and it has grown weaker with the years. However, I feel greatly honored and deeply humbled to represent, in a sense, my father, Walton H. Greever, Sr., on the day honoring his memory as the organizer of this congregation.
My first impulse was to find a sermon of his and to give you a direct message from him; but, that was not to be, he rarely wrote down a sermon, word for word, lectures, yes, but not weekly sermons. He made very short, concise outlines usually on small pieces of paper.
When I inquired what would be expected of me today, I was told, "tell us of the life of Ascension in the beginning, of your father and mother, your whole family, the people of this church and whatever else comes to mind, your life as a missionary and how you spend your time now." All that covers a big territory and would take more than my allotted time. I have decided, therefore, to reminisce with the help of my sister, Virginia Greever Plack, my cousin Paul Ohl and my former Ascension friends, Frances Price Bodie, Annie Becker Hege, James Dickert, Ed Cannon, Homer Epting and whoever crossed my path who had been a member of Ascension during that era.
Mr. Hyatt, a very distinguished looking man with a neat beard, lived in the home with his second wife and three very alert little girls, two of whom were twins. He was very prominent in community affairs. For a long time, he was a member of the Board of Trustees of Hyatt Park School. The park itself was naturally beautiful, but at first there was only a pavilion to which city people also came for picnics. Later, a swimming pool and dance hall were built. As far as I know, conduct at these places was good.
As the neighborhood boys grew older, together they built a tennis court on the lot between our house and the Printing Office. It became a very popular place also with seminary students and friends of various ages from downtown.
The lots just behind the seminary, where seminary residences now are, belonged to my uncle and were cultivated under the direction of my father. They produced wonderful corn, watermelons, cantaloupes, and sweet potatoes. The trees came later.
There were no sidewalks, but my father and Emmett White, the janitor for the Survey Building and the church, made the sidewalk from the Survey Building to the church, via Ensor Street, Duke, and Arlington, and, with the help of the boys and Gene Montgomery, a later janitor, kept it cleared of weeds and grass.
The seminary had recently been built and Mr. Ames Haltiwanger had built a home on Wildwood Avenue not far from Main Street. That house later was occupied for many years by the M. L. Farrell family of Farrell Printing Company.
I might say right here that, through the years, we had Sunday Evening Services regularly, Wednesday Evening Services during Lent, services each evening of Holy Week and services on the religious festival DAYS themselves, such as Thanksgiving, Christmas and Easter. It was not unusual to have early services on Christmas and Easter and programs by the children in the evening.
The day finally came when the little group of worshippers could say with the psalmist: "I was glad when they said unto me, let us go into the house of the Lord."
Of course, there was no Parish Building. The little ones had classes in the space at the left side of the chancel and the robing room to the right (in the original church). Other classes were spread out in every few pews throughout the church. We had fine, dedicated Sunday School teachers.
My sister said of him, "Sunday School with Mr. Rufus Counts as superintendent made a strong impression on me, as he was always bringing us up-to-date on Synod and Church Conventions, the Lowman Home, Newberry and Summerland Colleges."
One word Mr. Counts used often was 'strive'. No matter how well we did, he always admonished us to 'strive' to do better, and I believe we did.
James Dickert reminded me that Mr. Counts, assisted by Mr. Pickens Frick, officiated just as well over the shining lemonade tubs at the annual Sunday School Picnic held at Millwood, the old home of Wade Hampton. What a treat it was to the children to get out there to play ball, to wade in the creek at the bottom of the hill, to explore the grounds and to partake of the delicious food!
One piece of advice which I have heard him give to parishioners moving to a new area where there would be a choice of churches to join was, "Go where you can give the most, not get the most."
My father did not regularly take a vacation as such. He did experience some relaxation with his travels on church assignments and participation in the programs of Summer School for Church Workers. Ascension Lutheran Church often shared him to take part in activities of the church at large. I believe that the congregation profited, also, from these contacts. In fact, he did many kinds of work from that of a farm hand and janitor to that of a delegate to International Conferences. Whenever he could, however, he got in a little fishing, especially with his brothers, Albert and Ed, in Burkes Garden, Virginia. Even after he began to be unsteady on his feet and not being able to stop himself, fell into the fishing hole, he took it good-naturedly and was undaunted. Fortunately, he was not injured. As we were growing up, he enjoyed playing Rook with family and friends.
In later days, my father enjoyed scrabble, worked crossword puzzles and sometimes enjoyed good detective stories to get his mind off daily pressures. On the other hand, much of his thinking and planning for sermons, talks etc., was done as he rode along in the car.
My father's attitude in employing help was that the arrangement be mutually helpful. Whenever he could, he worked along with the helper. A number of families were long grateful to him for much more than a salary, for he took personal interest in them.
In the home, he usually left kitchen matters to the ladies. One time, however, he took me into his confidence as master of the kitchen after a visit he had made to George Washington Carver in his laboratory. We undertook to make peanut soup. The general idea was good, but that was the first and last attempt.
"He believed in the beautiful and life close to nature, And handles each flower as a precious creature."
In his early adult years, he looked upon hot house flowers as a luxury. As years went by, he came to realize that the florist, while making an honest living, renders a real service to his fellowmen that provides beauty that represents thoughtfulness, comfort, and love.
My father served the congregation without salary for a number of years and, as far as I know, there was never any parsonage allowance of any kind. However, part of the time he was pastor of Ascension, he was also with The Survey and the seminary.
When in a few years, my father married Neta Jane Umberger, a cousin and no stranger to us, the Ohl family and our grandmother moved back to the Philadelphia area. This, of course, left some room in the house.
The three large rooms across the front proved very suitable for such gatherings as the congregational New Year's Party, the reception for incoming seminary students, Luther League socials, Women's Missionary Society meetings and smaller group meetings such as the council and the catechetical class. Several early Ascension members have recalled the catechetical class held immediately after school in a classroom at Hyatt Park to accommodate members from the country.
As my sister, Virginia, describes it, one big 'plus' in sharing our home was the opportunity to learn to know many missionaries and church leaders who were entertained as overnight guests rather than being sent to hotels. Among these were Dr. and Mrs. C. L. Brown, Dr. Anna Kugler, Miss Katherine Fahs, Misses Maude and Annie Powlas, Dr. F. F. Fry, Dr. F. H. Gotwald, Dr. Gongaware, a long procession of delegates to synod, the Women's Missionary Society and the Luther League, during World War I soldiers and their wives from Camp Jackson. Once Karl W. Kinard was a student from Newberry College. The first married couple at the seminary, student and Mrs. Muller Wingard, roomed and boarded at our home.
My mother was a resourceful person. The day of a congregational reception arrived. The time set was 8 p.m. At about 8 a.m., when she was very busy in the kitchen, a big family from the country arrived in their surrey. Thinking there must be some mistake in the time, they had come to the reception, no one would be out after 8 o'clock at night they insisted. When assured there was no mistake in the time set, they said they could not come back, it would be a half-day's journey. My mother was surprised, to say the least, but she invited them in, served them refreshments and they went on their way satisfied.
My mother usually did have domestic help at home, but she, too, worked along with and as hard as they. We assisted, also.
In speaking of this period, Annie Becker Hege writes, "I know what happy days they were and how very serious we were about our church life."
But we had wholesome fun too! Much of the social life of the young people centered around the church and its activities such as the Luther League and the choir. Miss Annie Wheeler was one of the steadying influences in those days. Luther League socials were usually held in the homes. We enjoyed watermelon cuttings, candy-pullings, swimming parties etc. One of the most enjoyable Halloween parties was held in the attic of the Price home now being used by the seminary.
On one occasion, a group of us, assisted by volunteer talent from some of the city Lutheran churches, just because we wanted to, worked up a beautiful Hawaiian Operetta, 'Love Pirates of Hawaii,' under the direction of Mr. L. C. Moltz, director of the choir at Saint Paul's Lutheran Church, and Seminary Summer assistant at Ascension, Lethco Bumgarner. A group of us, made up the girls' chorus, complete with modest blouses, blue bloomers to the knee and grass skirts. 'Jack' Peery very reluctantly finally agreed not to object to letting his girl friend, 'Betty,' take part in the chorus. After a program at Hyatt Park School, we went on the road to give productions in nearby towns like Chapin, South Carolina and Little Mountain, South Carolina . We realized a good sum for a good cause, the Lowman Home.
There was a period when a number of us joined or substituted for seminary students in teaching Sunday School at the Tuberculosis Hospital at Ridgewood and State Park.
During World War I, three of us were invited by an older group planning entertainment for the soldiers at Friendship Hall down town to give our 'manless' black wedding. We were not yet in High School. Virginia Greever Plack was the minister, LeRhea Counts Davis was the bride and I was the groom.
Once when a swimming party was planned, one of a group of ten or eleven could not go because he had to get a typhoid shot. We decided if one could not go, none of us would. Instead, all of us filed into the County Board of Health Office for shots as routine protection. We had to give our names and addresses. When about five had gotten shots, the doctor looked up and asked, "Is there a typhoid epidemic in Eau Claire?" Those of you who knew him would realize student Wynne Boliek would not lead us astray!
Dr. Greever made out the curriculum for the Bible School. Four periods were held from 8 a.m. to 10 a.m. five days a week for two weeks. The school was well attended, not only by children of Ascension Lutheran Church but children from the neighborhood in general. It was a 'red letter' day when we neared or reached the one hundred mark.
Among other things, we memorized the words of hymns and learned to sing them, the books of the Bible, Bible verses and parts of the catechism. The hymns used today are three of my father's many favorites which we memorized. I believe only one or two words in one hymn have been changed in the new hymnal.
How thankful many of us have been for this training! My father often said, "Lay away as much as you can in your memory, for you never know when the time may come when you cannot depend upon a book."
My sister's testimony, with which I agree, is "I have never regretted any time I have spent at Ascension Lutheran Church. It gave me a foundation which stands me in good stead even today."
Miss Isola Caughman, a long time member of Ascension Lutheran Church, devoted much of her time to serving other people. She was especially attentive to the pastor's family. Mrs. M. O. J. Kreps would have had a hard time meeting her appointments if it had not been for transportation provided by Miss Isola.
It was suggested to me that I not hesitate to call names in this talk, in the good sense, of course. I made a partial list of individuals and families who have meant so much to this congregation, but I would have to go on and on and time does not permit. Since it is impossible to name everyone, let me now pay tribute to all those who have been named and those unnamed who have been a part of Ascension Lutheran Church and made any contribution, large or small, to the life of this congregation and to the church at large. This includes also the many seminary students and faculty who have worked and worshipped here.
In this connection, I am reminded of the story of an accomplished organist invited to play some famous organ numbers on such an organ at an anniversary celebration. After acknowledging the applause with a pompous bow, he announced, "I have just played 'Jesu, Joy of Man's Desiring' and now I shall play 'Tocato and Fugue in D Minor by J. S. Bach.'" With a flourish, he seated himself at the console and most confidently struck the keys. Not one sound came from the organ. After an awkward silence, a voice 'boomed' from the back of the organ, "We shall play," and the concert proceeded.
So it is with us. Each of us has been and is important and has his responsibility in the church, out front or behind the scenes. It takes all of us working together to carry on the work. We individuals make up the church. In the words of my father:
"The Lord has designated the church and no other agency, as the agency through which His work is to be done in the world. To it He has given all his commissions. To it He has entrusted all of His resources. To it He has given all His promises. From it He expects the fulfillment of His will. In it He provided for the exercise of all gifts. To it He asks for individual loyalty."
Ascension Lutheran Church has come a long way. I have been very interested in reading of your present day activities in your church paper. Keep up the good work.
Philippians 4:8, "Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever thing are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virture and if there be any praise, think on these things." and 1 Corinthians 10:32, "Whether therefore ye eat or drink, or whatsoever ye do, do all to the glory of God."